More2Hug - People Of Substance

M2H - Care to share your love and romance experiences with us?

Roberta - I've not had very many, some casual dates and a few guys who turned out to be interested in what they thought would be easy sex since I was fat. The greatest experience had to be when I met my husband the first time.
He was actually the date of my best friend. We were all going to a luau held by a BBW club near where he lived. He met us there and we both just did a mental "wow" when we saw each other for the first time. We 3 girls had a special comedic hula performance planned for the evening, part of which included showing our butts with a saying painted on them. Well of course he volunteered to be the painter with us the paintees. Needless to say he took his responsibilities as a painter very seriously and made sure to spend a lot of extra time embellishing. LOL it was quite an evening. I ended up snitching his e-mail address that night and e-mailing him the following weekend, where he promptly messaged me back inviting me up for the weekend. Taking a big chance I agreed and drove 3 hrs to spend the weekend with him. What was supposed to be a "booty call" as he calls it, turned out to be the most wonderful weekend of my life. We knew after that first night together that we wanted to be something more than sex partners. I felt so comfortable around him that I never wanted to leave. 6 months later I moved in and 9 months later we were married, and I owe it all to a little butt painting! Which he loves to tell people. When people ask us how we met, my hubby always pipes up " I painted her butt!" LOL the looks we get!

M2H - Sex... a taboo subject?

Roberta - As a big person, one hang up I had was with exposing my naked body to someone, I thought I was unattractive so how could anyone else think me attractive and want to be seen with me in public, let alone naked. I learned to overcome that when, through the Internet, I realized there was a whole sea full of boy fishes who liked larger girl fishes! I started to feel sexier and more sure of myself and opened myself up to the idea of dating and sex. It didn't happen overnight and I still have moments of doubt but I know I am an attractive person because of what's on the inside not the outside.


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