When I decided to write this article I searched the Internet for information available on the size of airline seats, seatbelt length and the availability of seatbelt extenders, along with information on aisle width and the size of the onboard lavatory. Since the majority of the population flies coach, I simplified my search by collecting information on coach seating only. I contacted several airlines and they were all prompt in their response to my questions. I found that the reason for my struggle with the airline aisle width was due to the fact that the standard aircraft aisle is just 15 inches wide. Many of the seats are only 17 inches wide. For a woman with generous proportions, squeezing into these small spaces is not only embarrassing and uncomfortable, but also intimidating. I try to board early, always ask for a window seat, and never leave my seat during the flight.

 I also found some disturbing things in my limited flying experience. Some airlines have seatbelt extenders that are brilliant orange which only points out that a passenger needs an extender. Sometimes plus size passengers pretend to be belted and the attendants pretend to believe they are belted. I have been in the second group twice.

For the most part, I have enjoyed flying and I have collected funny, scary, and frustrating stories about my experiences. I try to keep in mind that the flight attendants are not waiters and waitresses and they are not my parent. I have seen many of them keep their temper after being abused by passengers who demand a huge portion of their time and attention. Luckily I have only encountered a few that were obviously not coping well with frustration or anger.